How This Game Of Tag Works:
~Link to your tagger and post these rules on your blog.
~Share seven facts about yourself on your blog, some random, some weird, whatever you are brave enough to share.
~Tag seven people at the end of your post by leaving their names as well as links to their blogs.
~Let them know they are tagged by leaving a comment on their blog.
Man, they don't even give any guidelines or ideas.... this is going to take some thinking. Alright, Kim, this one's for you :)
1. During the day, I will literally think of 10-20 different things I could blog about. Less than 1% of what I think actually gets blogged, which always creates a twinge of guilt. However, I love blogs and immediately dismiss the guilt so that I will still want to do it.
2. If my world were the perfect world, I think it would be how it is. Don't get me wrong, my toddler throws tantrums, is turning 3 soon and is not potty-trained, Dexter is viciously teething, we drive old cars, don't own a house, we don't have cable, I can't ever seem to stay within my monthly grocery budget, my laundry is NEVER complete, I'm 2 years away from 30 and still have acne like a pubescent teenager, despite my recent gym efforts I can't lose weight, my home-dyed hair has serious roots, I can never have enough sleep, and we have a large amount of school/business debt, ...our life is a far cry from perfect, but it is just how I would want my life to be...with Shaune and my boys. Which brings me back to the point that my life is perfect for me. Everyday I look at Shaune and realize how God has blessed us, as He wants to bless all of us, if we just seek Him out. There is never a day that goes by where I don't remember when I almost lost Shaune...he is still alive, and that is good enough for me everyday.
3. Just got on to be a volunteer for Make-A-Wish foundation!! This involved a background check, LOTS of reference checks, surveys sent to friends to find out what kind of person I am, 4 page application, and at least a 1 year commitment. There are only 7 MAW volunteers here in St. George, so I'm excited to be a part of this great cause which is really personal for me.
4. Shaune surprised me last week by signing me up for a photography class!! YAH!!! He doesn't usually do stuff like that so this made the surprise just that much better...thanks, honey!!
5. I'm a little OCD about how my floors look. When I vacuum, I like the lines to look straight and even. My dad was always SO picky about this growing up that I think it is forever seared into my brain that if you are going to vacuum, make it look good :) How is it that I can be so crazy about my carpet lines, and yet never get my laundry folded???
6. Kim, I LOVED your story about the "4 Splurges" in your marriage. I think I will copy that---in my marriage, we have had a few splurges...my most recent was a Crate & Barrel kitchen table. I bought it lightly used with 8 chairs for $500. This was a major debate...especially since we couldn't consider it a tax write-off (like we can for all of Shaune's electronic goodies)--but, we got it and I LOVE it!!! Eating meals together is way important to Shaune and I. We didn't have a kitchen table for a few months after we got married (we didn't have much of anything actually). Then our friend Kanani, gave us her parents old kitchen table. One Sunday after church, Shaune found 4 matching chairs in the dumpster, dug them out, and refinished them. That is what we used for most of our marriage (I tried to make a table once...it was pathetic), until I bought this table. Which brings me around to another splurge we made...a true memory foam bed topper ($140--included tax and shipping). We really had NO furniture when we got married...including a bed. A few weeks after we'd been married, I found a queen sized mattress and frame for $50 in the PennySaver. I offered them $40 and it was a done deal. The mattress and frame were in perfect condition, but the mattress was a little firm...so, we splurged on that memory foam topper---it was one of the best purchases we have ever made. Still to this day it is wonderfully comfortable. The last splurge that I HAVE to share was our trip to Hawaii. We went totally on a whim...we found a SMOKIN' deal online ($450/person--included airfare, hotel, rental car for a week) and went for it. It was too perfect since the week it was being offered was Shaune's reading week and I had enough vacation time saved up to go. I was 6 months pregnant, and Shaune would be diagnosed with cancer 6 months after our trip. I will be forever grateful that we lived in the moment here. You just never know what can happen in your life, so take the chance to live...I mean really live each day. When the doctors were all telling us that Shaune's cancer was most likely terminal (since it was end-stage), I remember thinking about our trip to Hawaii and how thankful I was that we went for it. If I was going to have last memories with him on earth, that week would be the best memory to have had with him...he was totally in his element (surfing, hiking, exploring, eating at fancy restaraunts). Now, we try to look for any opportunity to celebrate a day. I wouldn't want to live any day with regrets.
7. I think that blogs are a great way to make personal declarations. So, I just want you all to know that I know that God lives. He is as real as the flowers or the sun or the mountains that we see. At some point in your life, you will have to decide if you really believe this or not. It can only be true or false, real or not. After I came to know God as a loving, real Father, everything changed for me. I can never be the same again because of this. He is everything to me. Life is not perfect. I am not perfect, but we all have access to He who is perfect through prayer, scripture, and faith. I just hope that I can always live and do the things He would want me to.
He lives.
Alright, anyone who made it through all of this is tagged...I really enjoyed reading Kim's tag...it was conversational and personal. It's always nice to learn a little more about your friends. Hopefully, you've learned a little about me :)
11 comments:
I love you a million times over court! You totally made me cry! I love hearing your and Shaune's story....it totally makes me think that I should enjoy life more and not make it so hard. It is very, very hard to live in the moment for me. I try but by the time I do get a break during the day (to actually enjoy living with my kids), I spend it laying on my couch or at the computer! Anywho, I am so happy and grateful to call you my friend! You rock baby--and you and your new hot bod--curtosey of Jessica Simpson! Awesome!
WOW! That was AWESOME! Thank you for sharing. SO WELL written and so meaningful. I loved it! I feel the SAME way about wanting my life just the way it is. Definitely not perfect, but so worth the imperfections. GRATITUDE for what we have. LOVE IT!
Thanks for reminding me to treasure every day with my loved ones! You just never know.
I remember when I 1st heard about Shaune. AHHHH! Heart wrenching!
He had already recovered by the time I heard about it, but I remember thinking to myself...that "if anyone I knew was going to have that severe of a trial...of course, it would be you"....and that "OF COURSE, Shaune made it." That came out weird, but I don't know how else to put it.... The point is....that I have always heard that the Lord only gives us trials that he knows we can handle. As surprising as it was to hear something like that, it did not surprise me at all. You are the only couple I know... with faith strong enough as individuals to make it through a trial like that. The trial shows the Lord's faith in YOU! And the outcome, your faith in the Lord. I don't know if that makes sense to you. It came out kinda funny, but I hope you get what I am trying to say.
I really, REALLY look up to you, Courtney. I think you are an amazing woman.... and Shaune is obviously your spiritual equal... You are an amazing couple. Thank you for sharing what you went through!
You left a comment on my blog and wanted to respond. To keep my car clean I take an extra trip out to the car to take out trash and other things that may have stacked up almost every day. Also, I don't feed my kids too much in the car since Bruin gets extremely car sick. Finally, we have only had the car for just over 6 months and the previous owners must have kept it quite clean :).
Just a reminder of why we love courtney and shaune! You 2 are amazing people. I need to be reminded to be grateful. I love the picture of you and Shaune you look so perfect together.
Still don't understand how 'Tags' work...maybe I'm just a little slow. I love reading your though. Can't wait to see you this summer Court!
Courtney, I need your e-mail address so we can invite you to the blog we just started. I'm still trying to get the hang of it!
So I read this last week and thought I already wrote a comment, but of course, I hadn't...I just imagined I did! What's my deal? Anyway, I love when you get tagged and then comment on it, because you're into super neat things ALWAYS! YOU are my hero!! I love that you are a volunteer and that Shaune signed you up for a photography class! You'll have to keep us updated on what you learn. You are SO COOL Court!
I love you Court...and loved reading your blog...I kept getting about halfway thru (yes I am a slow reader) and would have to do something else! You help me remember to stop and smell the roses...and I am jealous you are a volunteer with Make-A-Wish...how cool! and that you got to splurge on a table! Love you!
Okay, I am retarded..."You don't call people retards. You call your friends who are being retarded retards." (Michael Scott) I JUST noticed your Burn Baby Burn section on the side, so of course I am here to CHEER YOU ON! Good for you! I so want a personal trainer! I think it's awesome that you've started getting up and doing those things that are important to you...it makes such a difference day after day and I think helps you love your children even more...and be patient. You're following Elder Ballard's advice of finding some things that interest you! Wahoo! I will be checking regularly to get motivation. As soon as this baby is out, I have GOT to get back into it...I love getting up early and working out. Isn't it such a bummer that being fit (in most ways) really comes down to calories? UGH! That has been the biggest thing in my life to help me lose weight...I eat way more protein and less bread simply because all of your calories get wasted in bread, dang it!:) Way to go girl! You are my HERO even more!:) Keep it up!:)
*tap, tap, tap* anybody out there? I need to know what's up in Wallace land!
:)
Just FYI I got drawn for the st.george marathon! I'll see ya in Oct.
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